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Ho'oponopono

A Native Hawaiian practice of reconciliation and forgiveness, 'to make right' with self, others, and ancestors.

Educational only
Format
Individual or group
Session
20 to 120 minutes
Touch
no
Cost
sliding

What this experience is like in depth

Ho'oponopono is a spiritual and contemplative practice. It is a Hawaiian family and community process of acknowledgment, repentance, forgiveness, and release, sometimes led by a kahuna or elder. It works with the understanding that healing is not only about insight but also about what is felt, witnessed, and released in the body, relationships, and environment. In a session, in its traditional form, family members gather with a facilitator to speak, listen, and repair. A simplified modern form uses four phrases spoken inwardly. You will sit in a circle or alone; speak, listen, breathe, and pause. In self-practice: repeat 'I'm sorry, please forgive me, thank you, I love you.' This is offered either one-on-one or in a group setting, typically 20 to 120 minutes, and this is a touch-free experience. People often choose this when they are carrying Relationship Pain, Family Wounds, Shame, and Repeating Patterns. Over time, this work can become a way of relating to yourself with less fear and more capacity.

Who it may help

Relationship PainFamily WoundsShameRepeating Patterns

Overview

A Hawaiian family and community process of acknowledgment, repentance, forgiveness, and release, sometimes led by a kahuna or elder.

What happens during a session

In its traditional form, family members gather with a facilitator to speak, listen, and repair. A simplified modern form uses four phrases spoken inwardly.

What you physically do

Sit in a circle or alone; speak, listen, breathe, and pause. In self-practice: repeat 'I'm sorry, please forgive me, thank you, I love you.'
Typical session length

20 to 120 minutes

Insurance

Rarely covered by insurance. Some sliding-scale options exist, ask.

Questions to ask before booking

  • ?Is your training rooted in Hawaiian lineage?
  • ?How do you honor the cultural origin of this work?
  • ?Is this the traditional or modern self-practice form?

Possible risks & safety notes

The traditional practice belongs to Hawaiian families; commercialized versions can be culturally flattened. Approach with humility.

Talk with a professional first if this applies to you

Some conditions call for extra care before starting this practice. Please review the following and share what applies with your practitioner.

  • Psychosis or severe mental health history

    If you have a personal or family history of psychosis, schizophrenia, bipolar I, dissociative disorders, or are currently in an acute mental health episode, please consult a licensed mental health clinician before this practice. Intense inner experiences can be destabilizing.

These are general cautions, not medical advice. Always share your full health history with the practitioner and your regular healthcare provider before starting something new.

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Licensing & who to search for

Trained facilitator or elder (traditional), or self-guided (modern)

Try these search terms:

  • "ho'oponopono facilitator"
  • "Hawaiian forgiveness practice"
  • "ho'oponopono class"

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